Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Zombie Survival - #1


Many people are unprepared for a zombie attack should it occur.  I will start out with some basic zombie survival tips in this post.
  1. Be aware of your surroundings at all times.  A zombie attack can occur at any time so don’t let your guard down just because it’s daylight.  Zombies aren’t vampires.  Keep an eye out for possible weapons.  A knocked over trashcan will slow a zombie down considerably if executed at the right time.
  2. The zombie threat is more likely in certain places such as hospitals, graveyards (duh), convenience stores, NASCAR events, the DMV, or anywhere there could be groups of sick or slow people. 
  3. There is a zombie threat level, sort of like the Homeland Security chart. 
Green – no threat
Yellow – keep your eyes open
Orange – several signs of possible attack (disoriented, strange acting people, a group of really ugly, slow-moving people, moaning and shuffling)
Red – imminent zombie attack or attack in progress

  1. When someone is incapacitated in any way always keep a vigilant eye out for a zombie threat.  (unconscious, knocked out for surgery, broken legs)  The vulnerable person is usually the first target. 
  2. Keep a zombie survival kit.  This would entail anything you might possibly need to survive if you suddenly need to bunker down or leave home.  Think: camping type equipment and weapons.  I’ll write a detailed post on the kit at a later date.
  3. Don’t subject yourself to shady government experiments, even if they promise you a $50 gas card.
  4. Don’t put yourself into cliché horror movie type situations that just beg for a zombie attack. 
  5. Don’t waste precious minutes being shocked that there is a zombie attack.
  6. Never try to talk down a zombie.  They just want your brains and it’s about as pointless as negotiating with Michelle Bachman.  Run Forest, Run!
  7. Don’t run to places that are obvious zombie havens.  The CDC or the old nursing home down on Rt. 69 are probably not the safest bets.
  8. Make a plan and make sure everyone knows the drill.  If and when a zombie attack occurs we won’t know exactly what we’re dealing with right away, fast or slow zombies, environmental, biological, or medical causes, but if you have some kind of plan in place you will be ahead of the game.

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

20 Questions with Mickie Vigneri of Vivid Season

Vivid Season is the first band I interviewed for my local music series.  

        Vivid Season formed in the summer of 2008 bringing together a group seasoned musicians that put on a fun live show.  Their set list of modern rock favorites keep the girls dancing and the guys drinking.  The band sets the tone for a party atmosphere with a friendly following that hands out temporary tattoos and stickers, and by keeping an ongoing banter with the crowd.  If you haven't checked them out yet you're missing out on some good rock n roll!  You can catch up with the band at www.facebook.com/vividseasonrocks.



  1. How, when, and why did the band come together?
Vivid Season came together in the Summer 0f '08...I answered an ad that Mike Jones had put on MdParty.com looking for a vocalist.

  1. How did you pick the band name?
I came up with this name while sitting at my desk..had 2 CD's that I had been listening to laying out.. Dream Theater's - A Change Of Season" & Living Colour's "Vivid".

  1. What brand of instruments and equipment do you use and why?
These guys are all using "boutique" top of the line gear. We're all "gear whores" in the end. There seems to be a never ending "quest for tone". Splawn Amplifiers (guitars), JET guitars, Schroeder guitars, Bergantino & Bag End Bass Cabinets(both self powered) w/a Kern Pre amp for Bass, Modulus Basses, Pearl Session Custom Series Drums, Zildgan Cymbals, Evans Heads, Iron Cobra Pedals.

  1. Do you play originals or covers or both?
Covers - This is just for fun.

  1. Why did you decide to play this type of music?
We chose modern rock because we all want to continuously learn new material, learn new techniques, & keep it fresh for us as musicians.

  1. What makes your sound different from other bands?
Top of the line gear and production and top notch musicianship.  These guys are perfectionists. They have to learn every little nuance of the song, the little things that most people don't even notice matter a great deal this group. It is painstaking sometimes at practice, but the end result is totally worth it.

  1. What bands influence your sound?
We have varied influences, but mostly we're trying to mimic whoever's song we are covering at the moment.

  1. If you play covers; how do you choose songs for your set list?
Radio airplay, requests and most importantly audience response.
  1. If you write originals; what is your inspiration and method of writing?  Does one person write and then bring the idea to the band or do you have a jam session?

N/A..at this time


  1. What is your most embarrassing moment or blooper on stage?
Thankfully that hasn't happened yet.
  1. What is your most memorable fan experience?
Boobies! We get flashed quite often! (mostly because we encourage it!)
  1. Can you credit anyone with helping you with booking, support, and/or promotion, or do you do it all yourself?  If you’ve had help, who?

I (Mickie) do all the booking, accounting, promo, websites etc. Our friends and fans also help spread the word when it comes to promo. I'd love to have some help, but it's a non-paying position, so it's impossible to find anyone who is interested.

  1. If you could make a suggestion to the venues in the area what would it be?
Make sure you have enough area for a band to actually set up with enough power and receptacles available as well. Half price tabs are a nice gesture and spend a little time on advertising!  I don't mean putting the bands name on the marquee out front as they are loading in! The internet is also FREE, it doesn't cost anything...just a little time but it seems that it has always been and will always be the sole responsibility of the band to advertise, promote and bring the crowd. Though you rarely will get credit when you do pack the house...you will surely get all of the blame if the place is empty.

  1. What was the last band you went to see?  Anyone local?

The last band I went to see was Alter Bridge (for the 5th time) at Rams Head Live.

  1. What song requests do you repeatedly get that aren’t on your set list?

Skynyrd! Metallica! Pantera!

  1. Are there any songs you would refuse to play?
Oh hell yes, lots of them, lol.   The list would be way too long to type.
  1. What advice would you give to a band just starting out?
Save your money and buy quality gear. Practice, practice, practice.  Learn the entire song correctly.  Don't just play the root chord/note.  Find every little nuance and play it.  Practice, practice, practice. You are part of a group.  Play as such.

  1. Star Wars or Star Trek?

The Big Lebowski!

  1. How do you get yourself and your gear to your shows?
At present everyone is responsible for their own transportation.
  1. What are your plans for the future?
No plans...just want to keep on having fun and ride this wave for as long as possible. We're all getting old, lol.  We keep telling each other this is our last great rock band. After this we'll all have to take jobs in Vegas, or on cruise ships performing lounge music!  Lol

 Photo by 3roses photography


Friday, October 7, 2011

Pajama Pant Rant



Yea, I’ve run down to the store to grab a few things in my pajama bottoms because why change for like fifteen minutes but I really don’t understand the whole pajama pant as an every day clothing item.  I think my favorite sighting was a girl in the Walmart parking lot with her friends.  They were dressed in jeans and cute tops and there she was in her red and white moo-cow print pajama pants with Uggs and I have no idea what top because I was trying to figure out where the hell she would want to go dressed like that or where it was “cool” to party dressed like that.  They were obviously going out but since the other 2 girls and the guy with them were all dressed for daytime activities I guessed they weren’t going to a slumber party.  I guess they are easy and fast to get off when you need to.
Have we gotten so freakin’ lazy that we can’t pull on a pair of sweats, which in recent years look more like slacks, or zip up some jeans?  And not knowing the etiquette for using pajama pants as part of my everyday wardrobe do I just roll out of bed in the ones I wore all night?  Change my underpants or wear any at all for that matter?  Do I iron them if wrinkly or just go with it?  Fitted top or baggy?  I saw the Uggs so I’m guessing boots dress them up a bit but what about other footwear?  Jewelry?  Makeup and hair done?  I do know that pattern (cartoon characters are not frowned upon) and color don’t matter as long as you have a top that matches at least one of the colors on the pants.  This IS taking relaxation and comfort to a new level, which we as Americans strive for.   I guess I could possibly be missing out on something here.  Catch ya later!  Gotta pick up some milk at Wawa in my jammies.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

The Great American Divide


"We are the 99% that will no longer tolerate the greed and corruption of the 1%." (occupywallstreet.org)

Immediately after 9/11 everyone went on autopilot and came together as a united country.  We all wanted the same thing, to go after and punish the people who did this to us.  How dare someone attack us on our soil?  But it wasn’t long after that a distinct line in the sand was drawn between the people that thought we should retaliate against someone, anyone, because we had to show our power, and the people that wanted to gather the facts and go after the ones actually responsible.  Over the months this divide grew wider and wider as the government prepared to go to war with Iraq with shaky evidence that there were weapons of mass destruction laying about, even if Saddam Hussein and these WMD’s had nothing to do with the attack on 9/11.  We had to attack somebody, right?  When it was finally revealed that, yes, the government had fabricated and embellished the facts, and there were no weapons of mass destruction in Iraq, instead of coming together in outrage, the divide in the country grew even broader.  On one side were the defenders of the war saying “We took Saddam Hussein out of power.  Are you saying that you don’t think he is a bad person?  You’re un-patriotic and un-American for not supporting your troops and president.  How DARE you question!”  On the other side were the people who were infuriated that the government went to war under false pretenses and straight out lies.  They wanted answers and wondered why we were still not going after the actual perpetrators.  But these people were afraid to speak out because to actually defend their position meant being attacked with irrationalism.  Again being told that they hated the troops or America and “Well we had to do something.  It doesn’t matter if they had nothing to do with 9/11.”
            During the Bush years it became cool to hate Muslims or really any brown skinned person.  Anyone in a headscarf was evil.  Anyone studying the Koran was evil.  Anyone of Middle Eastern descent was evil, even if they were born on U.S. soil.  Blatant racism became cool, even in the less racially divided states.  For some here, Delaware became a southern state and people started slapping Confederate flag stickers on their trucks and wearing t-shirts that read, “If you’re offended you need a history lesson”.  We were afraid to sit on any mode of transportation with a possible brown skinned terrorist.  “Oh wait, that guy’s Cuban, it’s ok, take off the cuffs and cease the beating, but we’re still going to place you on the no fly list just because.”  It’s not any better now.  We began a back slide and we’re still sliding.
            Ten years and a new president later we’re divided by a chasm, but now not only is there a racial divide but a distinct division of class.  Racism is not only cool it’s now mandatory.  The majority elected our first African American president with hopes of bringing the country back together but the racial hatred has only gotten worse and from the start he’s been plagued with immense challenges such as the Wall Street collapse and rising unemployment.  The majority that voted him in knew what he stood for; health care, getting the troops out of Iraq, etc. but the louder, uneducated factions of the minority party have done their damnedest to undermine this every chance they get and they’re not the majority!  They are a minority of the minority.  Yes, I’m referring to the Tea Party, the Sarah Palins, the Michelle Bachmans, the Christine O’Donnells, campaigns and agendas based on complete distortions of history, corruption, and out right lying.  The media feeds into these loud mouths because they are good news but if you’d actually go to one of these redneck fests you’d see it’s a small amount of people spewing hate.  The majority of them have absolutely no clue as to what they are so mad about except that there is a black man in the white house.  The “history” their movement is named after has nothing to do with what’s actually going on in present day America.  Proof of how ignorant their little sideshow is.  There’s no point in a discussion or conversation with someone that has the facts twisted from the get go.  I think that the smart people in the Republican Party got a huge wake-up call when some of the tea-partiers were actually elected.  I myself don’t base my vote on who can scream louder and make up the biggest fairytale so I don’t really understand the allure of the Tea Party.  I guess the passionate and pulpit-like ranting snows some people.  Right here in Delaware Mike Castle sat back and poo-pooed Christine O’Donnell because he thought she was a joke and there was no way in hell she would win the primary.  Stupid freakin’ move old man.  They are motivated and they are loud and even if it’s only a baker’s dozen of them they catch media attention and now the old guard is paying the price.  Remember McCain and Boehner calling some of them down during the last government shut down scare?  The ones that said they wouldn’t compromise or vote with Obama no matter what?
The Tea Party is out of control, don’t care, and the media is fanning the flames.  Not only are they yelling racial epitaphs, but now they are cheering about people dying due to lack of healthcare.  They admittedly vote against Obama on everything just because they hate him even if it was something they campaigned for.  Pretty childish, right?  When Osama Bin Laden was caught Obama basically got a golf clap and then admonishments from the Right saying that this made us less safe in the United States because we were stirring Al Queda up.  For real?  If the Bush administration would have actually gone after the right people and gotten Bin Laden there would have been a shit stomping, do si doeing, confetti parading, chest thumping holiday the next day.  Instead we all went to work on Monday cheering to ourselves and miffed at the Republicans that were actually mad about it because it happened during Obama’s term.  Real quote; “It don’t matter if he was president when this happened.  It means nothing.  Bush gets the credit.”  I won’t even get into the blatant flip-flopping about the war in Afghanistan. 
I bet some of you would be surprised to know that many of the Tea Party believe that there should be absolutely no government entitlements or help for anyone.  I’m talking about getting rid of Social Security, Medicare, Veterans benefits, disability, student loans, and any program you can think of that the government provides for.  If you still don’t care, think about it this way; your grandma’s social security check and subsidized housing would just go away.  Along with her health care, her heart medicine, a nursing home should she need it.  Hmmm, makes you think twice, huh?  Is almost half of our country a bunch of heartless jackasses?  I don’t think so.  There are a lot of smart people out there supporting this mess.  Some of them vote this way because their family always has or because they are just too busy or lazy to get the real facts.  I also think that a lot of people have no idea what’s really going on what so ever because of lack of access to real news, either by choice or circumstance.  When you only have thirty minutes of canned local news you’re not really seeing what’s going on in the world or getting a realistic, honest view.  That’s if everybody is even watching the minimum of news.  Of course there are a lot of jackasses who are enjoying spreading hate but they are absolutely not the majority.  We have a long history in this country of the rich convincing the poor, less informed people what is best for them.  Using scare tactics to keep the masses in line has worked for centuries.  Obama’s healthcare program, taxing the rich, and strengthening and expanding government programs HELPS the poor and disadvantaged but somehow the racist, religious, republican right has convinced the working class that they are on their side.  Why?  Because they share racism and religion with you?  They only side they are on is big business and big oil and we poor folks have nothing to do with that. 
            Not that I’m excusing the Democratic party either.  Obama was voted in because we wanted things to change.  We were tired of the Bush regime and eight years of lies and chest thumping.  Obama inherited many problems and he’s tried to reach across the aisle to compromise but his hand has been slapped back repeatedly and the “middle” is being pulled more and more right by the conservative extreme right.  The middle is no longer the middle.  It’s right of the middle and still Obama tries to compromise, which has become his biggest mistake and why his base is now frustrated.  The Right has made it clear that there is going to be no compromise and once that was made clear over a year ago Obama should have stood up and said “Enough!”  The Bush administration pushed their agenda through without a thought or care.  Remember “executive rule” with ol’ Dick Cheney and the Iraq war agenda that was jammed through without vote or consequence even after we knew it was all bullshit?  Obama’s vision is still clear.  Grow a pair and push it through!  Stand up for your voters!  The voters, that are by the thousands, losing their jobs and dropping into poverty. 
Our middle class is completely disappearing.  Job creation is at a standstill and no improvement is in sight with local and state government employees being forced to take furlough days or completely losing their jobs and soon the closing of over 200 post offices around the country and the threat of the conservative right looming in the shadows aching to cut entitlements and government programs.  Unemployment statistics don’t show the true picture.  They only show the number of people applying for unemployment benefits but not all the people that are actually out of work or underemployed.  Underemployment that is perpetuated by the big companies in our country, supported by Republicans, that would rather hire two people and schedule each just below full time hours so that they don’t have to give them benefits, or send jobs overseas because they “claim” they are all “Nervous Nelly” about a shitty economy that they helped ruin.  These are your friends that have your best interest at heart, remember?  You’re lucky to have a job, right?
            Something needs to happen in this country and soon.  Obama needs to step up to the plate and keep his promises and the lower classes need to come together and stop hurting each other.  As unemployment holds steady there is an increase in crime against people in the same social class; poor people robbing poor people.  We’ve got to stop judging people that are in need and assuming that they “did it to themselves”.  It’s all so easy for any of us to lose our job, our electric, our home.  We’re all frustrated but striking out against each other is not the solution.  We need to help each other because we are the only ones that know what each other is going through when we’re scrimping by paycheck to paycheck.  It’s not the rich running the soup kitchens or the food banks.  It’s the people in your community that have been where you are and know that they could be back there again.  I’m hoping the silent majority will come together again when it really counts. 





Because I know I will be questioned about my Dick Cheney comment, you may follow up here:
http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/cheney/etc/synopsis.html

Thursday, September 29, 2011

The "New" Bullying Epidemic

Bullying in schools has been in the spot light in recent years because of a few high profile cases that have come to the attention of the media, but as all of us who have ever attended school or dealt with other human beings know, bullying has been going on forever.  There are many questions that need to be answered, such as, “Why is bullying still going on, why do the consequences for the victim seem to be more extreme, and why does it appear that absolutely nobody is taking responsibility for it?”
Many of us can distinctly remember being harassed by an individual or group of kids.  They somehow seemed to be lurking around every corner when there was no teacher or person of authority in sight.  I can recall sitting in class in high school and looking up to see the girl that was harassing me standing in the hallway gesturing and mouthing obscenities to me.  This girl and her friends had a long history of bullying and harassing, usually picking a new victim every couple weeks.  For some reason the thinking was that these kids needed attention so she was a teacher’s aide during that period and was out roaming the halls.  She was also waiting for me after several of my classes and threatened me right in front of a teacher who did nothing but tell her to go to class.  So when I started hearing of these new stories I wasn’t shocked but I was pissed off that the powers that be are acting like this is some new epidemic.
You would think that now, in the day and age of police officers taking up a daily presence in some schools across the U.S., here in Delaware called a “resource officer”, that there were be a decline in, at the very least, the acts of bullying but that isn’t the case.  There was a story recently in the news about a 14 year old boy who was taunted for being gay and suffered harassment throughout middle and high school, apparently daily at school as well as online, posts telling this boy he should kill himself and so on.  He finally did kill himself.  Lady Gaga dedicated a song to him at one of her shows and when the song was played at the homecoming dance after his wake a crowd of his friends cheered for the boy but the crowd that had been bullying him started chanting, “We’re glad he’s dead” and “You’re better off dead”.  The boy’s sister was there and was terrorized.  The school did nothing.  Finally the police are investigating it as a hate crime.  If I as an adult harassed someone like this it’s considered terroristic threatening and a misdemeanor.  Why is it still not being taken seriously?  It seems that still nobody wants to deal with this problem and then when something horrible happens the school acts shocked about it and say they had no idea that it was going on even when there is proof it went on right in the classroom or hallway and the child and/or the parents reported it to school administration repeatedly. 
Bullying starts as soon as children step feet onto the school bus.  Children form cliques and start excluding and ostracizing each other in kindergarten.  When I was in kindergarten I had long hair down to my waist and one boy in particular would yank my hair until I almost cried.  I told my teacher every time it happened and came home in tears upset about it.   Everyone dismissed it, as “he just likes you”.  Well my kindergarten harasser went to jail soon after high school for stabbing someone.  Bullying and dominating other people starts early.  An example I heard recently is of a young boy who was ceaselessly picked on while riding the school bus.  The school and the bus driver’s solution?  To punish the boy being harassed by assigning him a seat in the front of the bus and allowing the bully free reign to harass other children, which he still does.  One of the reasons bullying never ends is because bullies are raising bullies.  There seems to be a total lack of respect that is ingrained from the beginning.  There are a lot of young parents now but you can’t lay the blame on that either.  I mean a young a-hole is going to grow up to be an old a-hole.  I’m sure the bullies from my high school days are still bullying their way through life and their kids are seeing and learning from that.  As an adult I still meet bullies in my day-to-day life and you can be sure your life is going to be a living hell working for someone who learned to get ahead by being domineering and pushing people around.
Then you have to ask, “Why are the consequences for the victims of bullying much more extreme then they use to be?”  You never heard of kids when we were growing up killing themselves over being bullied.  Yea, we got into fights and beat up sometimes but we were basically told to “suck it up”.  We were upset and down about it but we didn’t automatically think that suicide was the solution.  “Are kids softer now?” Meaning, have we raised a bunch of dependent kids that do nothing but go to therapy, take Ritalin, and play Xbox?  Has technology done them a disservice?  I would think all that therapy would enable our kids to work things out with each other but with the advent of the Internet, people are able to reach out and harass someone 24/7.  Emails, social media, Youtube, etc., have all allowed someone to step right into your home.  Then there’s cell phones and texting.  There’s no escape and the cruelty is abhorrent. 
Lastly, WHY does it seem that absolutely nobody is taking responsibility for bullying?  Children shouldn’t have to change schools or be home-schooled to get an education in peace.  Their rights are being violated and there is still no one willing to stand up for these kids.  We teach our kids to turn to authority figures to protect them and they’re still being let down in a big way.  It seems that the prevailing attitude is that kids are overreacting to harassment, threats, and sometimes physical violence, which leads me to wonder if some of the people in charge of disciplining and stopping the escalation of harassment may either have been or are bullies themselves that think it’s no big deal so they are slow to react. So when something does happen they feign ignorance about a problem they clearly knew was happening.  Or is it some kind of power trip, laziness, lack of caring, or fear of the bully and the kid’s parents?  Why aren’t they scared of a lawsuit by the victim’s parents?  What I do know is that there needs to be a change and the only way it’s going to happen is for parents to have a serious talk with their kids about tolerance and acceptance, and teaching that you don’t always have to like someone to get along with them.  Then actually mean it and live it.  The schools need to actually enforce zero tolerance for bullying.  Each act should be taken seriously and recorded so that there is no chance for escalation.  Bullying needs to be seen as a crime with consequences to pay way before children think about killing themselves.

~Michele Hogsett

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Welcome to my blog ya'll!

I've been in a creative and mouthy mood lately so I decided to try my hand at writing a blog.  There will not be one theme but I will be talking music, movies, politics, my pet peeves and rants, breast cancer awareness, vet tech/animal topics, and much more.  Feel free to comment but please don't get rude or hateful.  I have a tendency to be a potty mouth but I'll warn ya in the title if I'm going off about something.

Love ya!
Shel